40 most relevant life learnings
Turning 40, I wanted to reflect a bit about life – the good, the bad and the ugly. This exercise helps me to cement the experiences that have shaped me personally and professionally. Why not look at 40 most relevant learnings to take in my ‘toolkit’ as I switch gears into my next decade of life.
Personal
- Create an environment of playfulness
- Change your routine from time to time to avoid becoming creatures of habit
- Think about what you are grateful for, even the small things, everyday
- Just do it
- Keep composure, kids will always touch push you to your limits
- Ensure a good balance between family and friend time
- Laugh and be silly together
- Make sure to adventure a few times a year
- Think of new/better ways to create experiences together
- Have those tough conversations for the right reasons
- Don’t hold a grudge
- Live in the present, but discuss what type of goals you have for the future to encourage each other to discuss what gives you energy for the future
- Listen to your partners advice and be clear whether you are going to take it on board or not as they know you the best
- If you are tired, admit it and go get some rest
- Cooperate with the inevitable
- Communicate openly and honestly
- See your relationship as a team effort, both need to contribute equally to make it work
- Make sure to have time for yourself and agree on boundaries on what works best for each other
- Create house rules that are followed
- Ensure a healthy home – eat well and maintain a good level of fitness, ALWAYS
Professional
- Remember to smile at the right time in the right place.
- Ask or you will not get
- Treat others as you wish to be treated
- Admit when you make a mistake
- Don’t take remarks personally, rather see the positive side for the business
- Explore all options on the table
- Focus on solutions, not problems
- Be genuine and honest
- Give authentic feedback, even if it puts you in a vulnerable position
- Put yourself in other’s shoes
- Be a good listener and ask relevant questions
- Create happiness for others
- The past is the past, move on to improve the future
- Check in to make sure you are executing on what is important and priority
- Get all the facts
- Don’t assume as that makes an ass out of you and me
- Encourage, encourage, encourage
- Throw down a challenge
- Talk in terms of others interests
- Praise every improvement
The Archive
- 2020August
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40 most relevant life learnings
- January
- My learnings in 2019: Time to create a more impactful road ahead
- 2019April
- When passion meets purpose: How my professional leaps got me to where I am today
- 2018February
- The hidden talent of a global citizen: Cultural intelligence
- 2016December
- Yes, yes, yes.
- June
- Smart Citizenship challenge
- May
- Lost in translation..perhaps?
- April
- The future human
- January
- Big.Energy.Data.Marriage
- 2015December
- Eye spy…the wanderlust trend
- May
- THE Biggest Barrier
- January
- Luffa: On the Sustainability Materials Radar
- 2014June
- Is it really about understanding evolution?
- Making solar mainstream
- March
- Earth Hour…say what?
- Recipe for Driving Sustainable Behaviour Change
- Turn the page
- 2013October
- London Sustainability Jam…nearly 1 month away
- August
- Proud to be 33!
- April
- Get up and create something
- March
- London Service Jam …what makes it special?
- January
- The future…
- Sharing is caring…right?
- 6 daily rules to reach your potential
- 2012December
- Our next raison d’etre…
- October
- When do you invent?
- July
- The importance of connection
- May
- What’s your little red paperclip?
- February
- The future of community energy
- January
- Iteration is a Lifestyle
- Believe in the drift
- Trend-oids
- 2012 Vow: Live in the ‘Wow’
- 2011September
- Lisa Frost.
- August
- The “Me-Too” Attitude
- May
- Intro to Paris: For newbie’s
- An idea…
- February
- Random acts of Thank You…like ya mean it!
- 2010December
- Time to put up and shut up. Bring it, 2011
- November
- Creating Change…
- Air BnB at Startup School
- October
- Work: A new found freedom
- January
- Free Events in London. Bliss.
- 2009December
- Get Excited and Make Things
- Internet Stats Galore – Just one Day
- November
- Giving Thanks Tribute
- Let’s combine global tastes for COP15
- Future of Green
- October
- 365 Ways to Change the World – Post for 31 October
- For all confused on the term social business and sustainability
- August
- Yes Please. Me likes these.
- July
- Co-Creation of Value = Necessary Change
- Interested in starting social change?
- June
- The Becoming of a Design Society: A New American Renaissance
- Best in Show – KitKatt Nohr Photo Competition
- May
- Great Solution for Closed Loop Recycling
- Re-think Play
- March
- Simple
- February
- MakeMeSustainable
- January
- Personal Dream Box
- 2008December
- Dream Box
- September
- Fresh ideas. Welcome.